Tuesday, July 5, 2011

the cab ride.

hope you guys had a wonderful 4th of july holiday :)
 
a co-worker sent me the 'forward' email below. a very special email...great reminder of how we
 need to be not so much thinking of our own little worlds, but what the "other" person
needs at the very moment we are in contact with them...enjoy!
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I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes
I walked to the door and knocked.. 'Just a minute', answered a
frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.


After a long pause, the door opened.
A small woman in her 90's stood before me. She was wearing a
print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940's movie.


By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had
lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets.


There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils
on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.


'Would you carry my bag out to the car?' she said. I took the suitcase
to the cab, then returned to assist the woman.


She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb.


She kept thanking me for my kindness. 'It's nothing', I
told her.. 'I just try to treat my passengers
the way I would want my mother to be treated.'


'Oh, you're such a good boy, she said. When we got in the cab, she gave
me an address and then asked, 'Could you drive through downtown?'


'It's not the shortest way,' I answered quickly..


'Oh, I don't mind,' she said. 'I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospice.


I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. 'I don't have
any family left,' she continued in a soft voice.. 'The doctor says I don't have very
long.' I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.


'What route would you like me to take?' I asked.


For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me
the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.


We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived
when they were newlyweds She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once
been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.

 
Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and
would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.


As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon,
she suddenly said, 'I'm tired. Let's go now'.


We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was
a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.


Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were
Solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been expecting her.


I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to
the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.


'How much do I owe you?'
She asked, reaching into her purse.


'Nothing,' I said

'You have to make a living,' she answered.

'There are other passengers,' I responded.


Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug.
She held onto me tightly.


'You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,' she said.
'Thank you.'


I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning
light.. Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life..

I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift.
 I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk.

What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift?

What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?


On a quick review, I don't think that I have done anything more important in my life.


We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments.


But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully
wrapped in what others may consider a small one.


PEOPLE MAY NOT REMEMBER EXACTLY
WHAT YOU DID, OR WHAT YOU SAID ~BUT~THEY WILL
ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL.


Thank you, my friend...


Life may not be the party we hoped for,
 but while we are here...we might as well dance.

5 comments:

Young and Fabulous said...

wow what an amazing story! and SO SO true! thanks for sharing ashley!

im sending this along to people!

melifaif said...

Chill bumps, My friend. MAD chill bumps. Great story....

Emily said...

Its so true how we're caught unaware of great moments. How quickly and easily we could pass them up.

What a great reminder!

Christina said...

Beautiful.

*D* said...

what a beautiful story! just made me tear up. thanks for sharing!